Thursday, September 20, 2012
48 hours of hard LABOR! Part 1 of Labor and Delivery
Oh my goodness, it has been so long since I have blogged. I really wanted to be able to share my story of the birth of my sweet Mason. Well, not just the birth but a whole couple days leading up to his birth. It all started on September 2rd I had been having such a strange day and was feeling completely weird about something, I couldn't put my finger on it but one thing I did notice is that my baby was not moving as much as he should have. I kind of brushed it off my shoulders and thought to myself well maybe he will start moving if I lay down, drink some juice, nudge him a little ect.I felt a few kicks and jabs that day but nothing significant. After having everyone in my family tell me that it wasn't normal and persisting that I should go to Labor and Delivery and have a non-stress test done just to make sure he was doing okay and his heart rate was up and that he wasn't stressed out. Sure enough my sister and I headed to the hospital where I met up with Ty. At first I was a little nervous cause I was like "What if they decide to keep me and we have this baby tonight?!" We were getting a little anxious! They took me in a room where they monitored him for about a half hour. It was quite funny because the nurse kept telling me I was having a lot of contractions but low and behold I couldn't feel them. The nurse never checked me to see if I was dilated but they sent me on my way home any ways. I was a little disappointed but I guess they only have room for people who are in true labor. The next day was Labor Day and I woke up feeling that strange feeling that I had been feeling the day before, except for a little bit worse. This time I could actually feel the pain of the contractions but they were way too far apart only having a few within a couple hours. So I figured I would just go about my day and go to the Iron county fair, walk around and do what I do best and just wait it out. By the end of the night after we had got home I was starting to feel these contractions getting very close together about 8 min apart and to the point were I had to stop and breathe through them but as the night went on the contractions were getting further and further apart about a half hour apart from each other. I thought this was very strange and by the next morning they had completely went away. I did my research and everything that I had pulled up on the internet said that it wasn't that normal to have that bad of contractions and then all the sudden have them completely diminish. Once again I went about my usual day... by Tuesday night September 4th I was having pretty bad contractions again, which started in the middle of the night. I started timing them and they were around 6 min apart. These contractions were getting very painful so around 3am I woke Tyler up and I flat out told him " I think this is it, grab everything and lets go to the hospital!" We got to the hospital and I had the same nurse as I did a few nights before. We did the normal monitoring but this time she checked me and I was dilated to 2cm. Of course this was not good enough for them, and supposedly they were so busy that night with a handful of women having babies and of course she sent me on my way.....HOME and told me not to come back until my contractions were 3 or less minutes apart. I was so frustrated and in tears due to the fact that my contractions had gotten so bad and I had never felt that pain in my life before. On Wednesday September 5th my contractions were still about 6 min apart. I decided I didn't want to do anything that day and just lay around and let nature take its course, since that's about all I could do. It was a long day of taking hot baths and trying to get some sleep since I practically got no sleep in the last couple days. Tyler had worked that day so I just sat at home alone bearing through these terrible contractions thinking I was possibly going to die. The whole day the contractions were still around 5-6 min apart and I kept thinking to myself " I can't go in until they are 3 min apart" but at that moment I seriously couldn't take it any longer, but I did... by the end of the night I started to feel the contractions getting closer and closer together. On September 6th I had the most rough night any body could possibly imagine that day. Tyler was such a sweetheart and stayed up with me holding my hand through every contraction. We started timing them around 4am and they were 4 min apart. We were finally getting closer. Tyler and I agreed that we should still wait until they were closer together. By 5am the contractions were right on top of each other, literally about 20 seconds apart. I had never been in so much pain in my entire life, and this is a pain that you cannot describe to anyone who has not been though this. Let me just say it was pure HELL. I kept telling Tyler that I felt like I was going to die! Anywho, around that time i thought I should try to eat some food because they don't let you eat anything in the hospital until after you give birth. Well to say the least, I couldn't eat one bite of anything because the contractions were literally making me want to vomit. At 5:45 am I couldn't take the pain any more and Tyler and I grabbed our bags and we rushed to the Hospital. It was a long walk to Labor and Delivery because I had to stop every minute because I was having a Contraction. Lets just say I am glad it was early in the morning when no one was at the hospital cause I looked like a complete lunatic! We finally arrived to labor and delivery at 6:00am exactly, they got me all hooked up for the 3rd time, they checked me and bless my little heart I was dilated to a 6+ the nurses were in complete "awe" of me because they said being a first time mom and going that far without an epidural was CRAZY! They said the rarely see this happen and were giving me praise. At this point I was just so excited cause I knew this would be the day that I met my sweet Mason boy! To be continued....
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you are one very strong women andi and you have a great man at your side and you are right no one can understand what you when through if they didnt go through labor and delivery, but it did turn out good in the end for you and ty. i am proud of you andi. congrads to the both of you, you guys will be wonderful parents.
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